My husband and I have stayed pretty sexually active. I know my children and some of you may not want to think about that. Older people having sex. But we've always maintained a sexual relationship, though as we had children and they got older, it became harder and harder to do it without getting caught in the act. It's happened only once, and it was because Danny couldn't sleep one night so he came to sleep with us, but we were... previously engaged. I remember feeling so awkward as we both looked at our son and he just looked back before walking away again. None of us have ever mentioned it, but my husband and I got a little bit more careful after that.