I felt like a failure when my ex-husband wanted to get a divorce from me, but now I realize that we were probably way to young to have gotten married. Things just were never the same after the baby. I was always so tired and stressed, and I had put on weight which my ex, being the superficial prick he is, always ragged on me about. He started spending less and less time and home, and then one day he just didn't come home. A few days later he called, telling me he wanted a divorce. Not even having the decency to tell me to my face. It was the right choice, because I definitely have been happier since, but it hurt then.