My mom was only trying to help. That's what I keep telling myself when I remember how she found my vibrator. She was cleaning, and apparently she wanted to clean under my bed and she found it. I was so embarrassed when she pulled it out, asking me what it was, as if she didn't know, when she did. I got so angry with her for going through my things, and for having the gall to try and lecture me. I was an adult. We got in this huge fight, that needed to happen for a while, and I finally asserted myself as my own person. It took her a while to get that.