Getting arrested

My wife and were having a really big argument. She was telling me what was wrong with me. I felt she was twisting them around and blowing them out of proportion. I told her what was wrong with her. She denied it. I was so frustrated I wanted to shake her. Instead, I grabbed her by the arms and pushed her. She fell down. Then she called the police. I was arrested for spousal abuse, wasn't allowed back in the house or anywhere near her for 60 days, and had to go to anger-management counseling.