I lost my virginity on the rebound. After my boyfriend was discovered cheating, I went around dating any guy who would ask me out, and one of them sensed the weakness in my resolve. One night, when we were together at my place, he saw the opening in my guard, and took it. He said all the right things, touched all the right places, he played me like a violin and I woke up the next morning sore and mortified at what I had done. It was consenting, it wasn't rape, but I still felt emotionally violated because he took advantage of my weakened state. It was then that I decided to get stronger. I didn't need a guy.